We Feel You: 16 Sad Movies to Watch When You Just Need to Let It Out
As much as there are days when we want to do nothing more than laugh, smile, and enjoy all the good things in life, there are others when we would honestly rather relish in its dark side. Maybe it's been a while since we've had a good cry, maybe we're frustrated about a plan gone to pieces, or maybe we simply want to turn our backs on sunny skies and puppies for the time being.
Whatever the cause of our blues may be, feeling sad shouldn't be glossed over. And when that mood hits you, too, then there's sometimes only one suitable solution: Draw the curtains and turn on a movie that gets exactly how you feel.
We scrolled through the Netflix library to zero in on the types of movies that meet this raw emotion. From long-standing classics to new favourites, as well as stories based on true events and tales rooted in fiction, these are the 20 sad movies on Netflix that you should watch when you're feeling blue.
They won't exactly cheer you up, but they will let you stay in that melancholy space until you're ready for something new.
The Lovely Bones
Plenty of celebrated actors make appearances in this Peter Jackson film—like Susan Sarandon, Stanley Tucci, and Rachel Weisz—but Saoirse Ronan's performance might be the one you cry about the most. Her character is murdered on a walk home from school, and the movie follows her as she navigates "the in-between" world she's thrust into after her death. Peter Jackson's ability to create a whimsical fantasy is on display in this journey, which is intertwined with a family and daughter's grief that they can no longer be together.
The Imitation Game
There's a lot about this story that should fill you with pride, but there are also aspects to it that are more than sad. The movie focuses on a secret British intelligence team that's tasked with breaking the Enigma Nazi codes during World War II. At the helm of this seemingly insurmountable task is mathematician Alan Turing, who devises a plan to build a machine that eventually outwits the Enigma. But instead of returning to a quiet life after the war is over—with a few secretly knowing what he did to end it—Alan is arrested for being gay.
Childlike wonder and imagination are at the heart of this charming movie, which stars Johnny Depp as J.M. Barrie and Kate Winslet as a mother whose children inspire his famous story of Peter Pan. You might get a little emotional over a few familiar scenes—like when Tinkerbell and Peter first teach the boys and Wendy to fly—but it'll all come out by the end of the story. That's due in large part by the performance of Freddie Highmore as Peter and a particularly heart-tugging finale.
Cate Blanchett plays the namesake woman of this period film, which begins as she is doing some Christmas shopping at the department store where Rooney Mara's character, Therese, works. They have an instant attraction, and when Carol accidentally leaves her gloves on a display counter, Therese finds her address to return them. This begins their secret affair, which includes attempts to hide it from Carol's ex-husband as he fights her for custody of their daughter. Things, of course, don't go as planned, but you'll enjoy the beautiful cinematography, costumes, and performances all the same.
Dallas Buyers Club
There's a good chance that you might have heard about this movie, which won Matthew McConaughey an Oscar, but you should make time to see it. McConaughey plays Ron Woodroof, a man who is diagnosed with AIDS in the mid 1980s when the disease lacked societal understanding, medical research, and viable treatments. After he is ostracized from his loved ones and loses his job and home—all while given 30 days to live—he tries to find medicine to save his life. He finds a promising drug with help from a disgraced doctor, but it's illegal in the U.S. So, he decides to smuggle and sell it to other HIV-positive people.
This sprawling World War II drama stars Keira Knightley and James McAvoy as two lovers at the center of misperceptions, crime, and class dynamics just as World War II erupts in Britain. Knightley plays Cecilia, a young woman from a wealthy aristocratic family, and McAvoy plays Robbie, the housekeeper's son. They've grown up together in passing, and their families don't consider them as anything more than acquaintances. But, they're secretly in love with each other—and when they act on it, Cecilia's little sister thinks she sees something that isn't true.
Sunny Pawar's performance as a child who gets lost on an Indian train—and subsequently separated from his brother and family—will make your heart sink, although it isn't the only tear-jerking aspect of this award-winning movie. His character is later adopted by a couple from Australia, and when he grows up (in a role played by Dev Patel), he makes it his mission to find the family he left behind.
Frank and April Wheeler—played by Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet—look like the ideal 1950s couple. They have the perfect suburban house, he has the perfect job, and she takes care of two perfect kids. At least that's what it looks like from the outside. This movie explores the difference between perception and reality, and the potential dark side of living up to perceived levels of success. It's a sad, but also unnerving, look at this point in American life.
This true story, which is often referred to as a Steven Spielberg masterpiece, follows Oskar Schindler (played by Liam Neeson) as he eventually saves the lives of more than 1200 Jews during World War II. At the beginning of the movie, he's a businessman living in Krakow, Poland, and a member of the Nazi party. His connections allow him to open a factory, where he hires Jewish workers. But as the war escalates, he realizes that the factory can be a way to protect them. It's a difficult movie to watch, but its honest look at the horrors of the Holocaust is worth it.
Sean Penn plays Harvey Milk, the first openly gay public official in California, who helped to galvanize the activist movement in San Francisco during the 1970s. As the movie shows how Milk rose to his level of stature—doing so, in part, with archival footage—it also depicts the tenuous relationship he had with Dan White, the fellow politician who murders him in his office. It's a biopic that gives an accurate look at this electric yet difficult time period, while also showcasing the same human rights debates we're still having today.
So it's not that hard to be sad at some point during a Pixar movie, but Coco might be the one that really turns on those emotions. The story centers around the revered Mexican holiday El Día de los Muertos, and a boy named Miguel who is trapped in the land of the dead when he decides to become a musician against his family's wishes. Of course you won't be sad the entire time you watch this movie—the colorful 3D scenery is just one thing that will put a smile on your face—but there will be some details that make you misty.
Life Is Beautiful
It's an interesting feeling to find yourself smiling and laughing at a movie mostly set in a World War II concentration camp, but that's the complicated appeal of director Roberto Benigni's film: You'll laugh and cry at the many ways the father tries to hide atrocities from his young son. The story won Academy Awards for its unusual depiction of this era—you might remember how Benigni walked on chairs to the stage—and it's worth a watch for its uniqueness.
Into the Wild
In a movie that's based on a true story, and goes back and forth from past to present, we learn that Christopher McCandless is a recent college grad who decided to shed all of his possessions and travel the country in the early 1990s. He moves from California to South Dakota to Mexico, meeting plenty of interesting people along the way, and eventually ends up in Alaska. While this story will make you want to emulate a bit of McCandless's sense of adventure, the ending will also make you wish for a different one.
In the years after World War II in Germany, a woman named Hanna Schmitz (played by Kate Winslet) meets a boy named Michael Berg. The two begin a secret affair, in which he also reads to her at every visit. Years later, Michael is a law student observing the trial of women accused of letting 300 Jewish women die in a burning church during the war—and Hanna is one of the accused. Michael knows she has a secret, and although he's torn, he's sure that the secret could help her.
Based on the 2010 novel of the same name, this movie centers around Brie Larson's character as a woman who has been held captive for seven years. She's had a son in that captivity, a 5-year-old boy, and together they live in a shed they call "room." She makes her son believe that the outside world only exists on TV, but one day the two find a way to escape. It's a story about resilience and imagination, and we won't be too surprised if you ugly cry.
This film focuses on a team of journalists from the Boston Globe who learn of and begin to investigate widespread child sex abuse allegations perpetrated and then covered up by members of the Catholic Church. The story follows the journalists—including Mark Ruffalo, Rachel McAdams, and Michael Keaton—as they piece together what happened and how to find justice in the face of such a powerful entity. Trust us, it's a Best Picture Oscar winner for a reason.