This Is the Body Language Mistake Most Professionals Make
It’s easy to underestimate the importance of body language, especially when words have such a major impact on the way we communicate with one another. But according to Dr. Albert Mehrabian, professor emeritus of psychology at UCLA, the way we communicate with our bodies is far more important than how we communicate with our mouths.
In a new piece from Inc., writer Ian Altman spoke to body language expert Mark Bowden, who revealed the biggest mistake a professional can make is trying to read the body language of another person. "When someone has their arms folded, it could be they are not open to your ideas,” he says. “It could also mean they are cold. It also might mean that they fold their arms when they are intently focused."
Altman’s conversation with Bowden just so happened to extend beyond the parameters of body language. According to him, there’s a huge dichotomy between being a “buyer” and a “seller.” Buyers ask questions, or, in other words, they’re interested and make well-informed decisions. “Buyers have been conditioned to not trust salespeople," Altman says. "If you demonstrate classic salesperson traits, that will trigger a defensive response."
So the next time you find yourself in an important meeting, remember: Good body language is half the battle.
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